{"id":499,"date":"2014-09-07T03:41:19","date_gmt":"2014-09-07T03:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/discreetaffairfinder.com\/?p=499"},"modified":"2014-08-01T18:39:15","modified_gmt":"2014-08-01T18:39:15","slug":"discreet-affair-down-for-a-threesome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/discreetaffairfinder.com\/index.php\/discreet-affair-down-for-a-threesome\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Discreet Affair Down For A Threesome"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Is-Your-Discreet-Affair-Down-For-A-Threesome\"The thing that makes an affair so exciting is that it is something that is out of the ordinary. Sex in a committed relationship<\/a> can become stale. No one likes to have chocolate everyday of their life, sometimes you just want to have vanilla. That is the beauty of having a sexual affair, it is something that is naughty, against the rules, and well, it is a new experience from the everyday. Another thing that is a new experience from the everyday is a threesome. If you have always wanted to have one, but you knew that your committed partner would never go for it, you may benefit from asking your discreet affair what she thinks of the idea. <\/p>\n

The problem is that you don\u2019t want to run the risk of offending her by suggesting that she do something that she wouldn\u2019t be comfortable with. Before you make the mistake of asking someone and putting them in a bad position, there are some cues that can tell you whether she would be up for it<\/a> or not. If she is showing you any of these signs it is likely that she is open to having more than just the two of your participating in your sexual encounter.<\/p>\n

You are able to talk about sex<\/b>
\nIf you have an affair partner who is open to talking about sexual activity you may have an opening. Often times people are very closed and secretive about their likes and dislikes. If someone is open to being vulnerable enough to talk about what they like in bed, it is okay for you to throw out the question of whether it is something that they may be interested in. If you don\u2019t have very good communication about sex, or don\u2019t discuss it, a threesome may be something that you may not want to bring up either.<\/p>\n

How secure is she?<\/b>
\nIf you have an affair mate who is very confident<\/a> in herself she is a good candidate. Being able to feel good about yourself and having confidence in who you are, are good signs that you would be open to new experiences. Often times women wouldn\u2019t be open to having other women involved in sex because they worry that you would compare them. If your affair is completely satisfied with who she is, how she looks, and her own body image, then you may want to suggest that you try something new like a threesome. The more secure she is the more likely you are good to go.
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