{"id":463,"date":"2014-06-15T02:22:54","date_gmt":"2014-06-15T02:22:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/discreetaffairfinder.com\/?p=463"},"modified":"2014-05-24T20:52:36","modified_gmt":"2014-05-24T20:52:36","slug":"what-turns-affair-partner-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/discreetaffairfinder.com\/index.php\/what-turns-affair-partner-off\/","title":{"rendered":"What Turns Your Affair Partner Off?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"WhatThe allure of having an affair is that it is supposed to be something different from what you currently have in your life. If you are wondering why your affair <\/span>has begun to avoid you, it may be that the thing that made you attractive to her, is wearing off. You probably have not changed the way that you look, so there is something else driving her away. What are the ways in which you can turn off your affair partner?<\/p>\n

There are things that can turn any woman off<\/a>, but especially a married woman. The whole idea behind an affair is for it to be fun. She doesn\u2019t want to hear your problems, she has her own. You are supposed to be her escape. If you are being a pain in the ass, she is probably starting to try to escape you. If you want to know what it is that you are doing, these are some surefire ways to drive her away. Don\u2019t do them if you want the affair to continue:<\/p>\n

Being jealous<\/b>
\nIf you are acting like a jealous husband<\/a>, news flash, she already has one. The last thing a married woman, who is having an affair, wants is another controlling man in her life. An affair is strictly for two things, fun and sex. She doesn\u2019t want to be owned, or deal with your demands. Instead of being jealous that other men are adoring her, be proud that she has chosen you to have an affair with, and let it go.<\/p>\n

To Much Family Talk<\/b>
\nIf you have noticed that she doesn\u2019t talk about her problems like family, work or kids, there is a reason. Being out with you is supposed to be a time to leave that all behind. If you are constantly complaining about your wife, your children, or how hard it is to be you, she won\u2019t want to be with you. No woman wants to be with a miserable man. She probably already has one at home, which is why she is with you. When you are out with her, leave your life behind. Enjoy the time with her, and stop talking about things that aren\u2019t happy. Your time out with her should be an escape from the everyday, not a therapy session.<\/p>\n

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Being to critical<\/b>
\nIf you are telling her what to do constantly, or being highly critical<\/a> of her, you can say goodbye. She is most likely having an affair because her husband either doesn\u2019t appreciate her, or doesn\u2019t make her feel good. That is what you are for. If you are too critical of her, or how she looks, you won\u2019t make her feel good about herself. Most married women have affairs to make themselves feel wanted and beautiful again. If she wants someone to point out her faults, she can just go home. Be complimentary, and overly appreciative if you want to hold onto her.<\/p>\n

Being A Negative Nacy<\/b>
\nThere is nothing more unattractive than being negative. It doesn\u2019t matter what you are talking about, always talk about the silver lining. When you are with your affair you should be thinking about happy things. That is what affairs are for, to leave the stress of your real life behind. If you want her to be a thing of the past, keep talking about how bad things are. She doesn\u2019t want to hear all of your \u201cnegative nelson\u201d comments. Be positive and pleasant if you want to hold onto her.
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